Michael asks…
my sister is pregnant and wants to keep the baby but?
my sister just turned 21 and is 2 months pregnant and wants to keep her baby which is not a problem since the dad (sisters bf) absolutely loves my sis. the BAD part is….she lives with me and my brother.. i am 16 and my brother is 19. we live in a tiny 1 room apartment together since our parents are too lazy and cheap to care of us and basically abandoned us when they moved away. my sister works in a clothing store and helps out at a local pet store. my brother goes to college but works part time.. we want to keep the baby but we dont have enought money to provide for the kid….plus my sister’s bf is an art major in college so he doesnt have much money since his parents provide for him. wat are we gonna do?
we seriously arent that well off, i mean we barely make enough as it is. and if the baby is born, we arent gonna have a good environment since our place is tiny.
my parents JUST left to korea without telling us, so its obvious that they arent gonna help.
admin answers:
It’s your sister’s choice, your sister’s responsibility and therefore your sister’s problem. You shouldn’t worry yourself so much about it, you need to make it clear to your sister that whatever her choice is, you support her, and you’re willing to help out with the care/babysitting etc, but cannot help out financially. If your sister has thought seriously about her decision, then obviously her and her boyfriend have discussed what they’re going to do financially and accomodation-wise, and shouldn’t be expecting financial assistance from you.
Daniel asks…
Anyone else tired of people bringing their pets into stores?
Grocery stores, book stores, restaurants, clothing stores, ect…. Why do you bring your pets into stores?
admin answers:
YES! I hate it. It’s so disrespectful. Every time someone brings in there tiny dogs into me store, I ask them to leave. They give my crap and tell me the “i’m never shopping here again” line, but I don’t care.
John asks…
Where do you shop online for pet products in Canada? Any recommendations?
What are some good Canadian online stores that sell pet products? Toys, beds, clothing, etc? Low end? Designer?
admin answers:
Just do a yahoo shopping search on yahoo canada and there should be a few that pops up/
Sharon asks…
Does she like me? help? 10 points to the best answer!?
I went to visit a girl who I’ve been friends with for over a year now, and we casually texted or immed each other a lot even while she went out with another guy. I deep down always had a crush for her, but never really told her. I came for just the day because she had to work later that afternoon, but I felt it was worth seeing her. During the visit we first drove into the city, and there wasn’t much to do since it was early in the day so she suggested us walking in the park and saw a bench and wanted to sit down and talk/catch up. She then asked if I was interested in anyone, and told her I told her no, and I asked her back and she talked about how immature her ex (Bob) was and how he wants her back, and doesn’t understand why she broke it off. We then got hungry and went to get brunch at this nice place she enjoys, which I’ve never been to. At the end, she offered to pay, but I ask if it was okay I wanted to, and i remembered she texted before “when you come up, will take me out to dinner?” a while ago. I told her i remembered I owed her a meal, but she goes “oh I meant dinner…” and my reply was “we could do dinner another time too” After, we went to the mall, went into the pet store, clothes stores, and found out how we both like cologne/perfume a lot. When she dropped me off at the train station, we hugged but then there was a minute of silence and we just looked at each other, but if I saw her kind of bend her knees/looked a lil sad/ leaning forward, and i just quickly hesitated and said “oh you should get to work, i’ll talk to you later” and left. Lately, she’s been texting me every 1-2 days saying things like hi and how she would be at work or driving to a friend’s house, asking if i went to the beach yet and how she wants to go there. I think it’s her hinting on going? Also, at the end I asked if she was doing anything that night, and she told me her old ex (Tony) asked her to dinner and she said she doesn’t feel anything for him, but she can’t resist food and doesn’t see any harm in going. I guess that kind of bothered me a little?
admin answers:
Based on your story, I’d say she’s definitely at LEAST thought about dating you. It’s not uncommon for a girl to simply text a guy friend (however, since she texts you so frequently, it could be her way of flirting) or just hang out with him, but that last interaction at the train station – where she was leaning forward and lingering after the hug – may suggest that she was willing to take it to the next level. Talking about perfumes and clothes could be her way to subtley (and maybe even sub-conciously) drop hints for the future. Unless she typically talks to you about her prior relationships and dates, I’d go so far as to say her mentioning the date with Tony was a quick jab to get you jealous. Apparently, it worked. If she wants to get you jealous, she’s wanting to see you “fight” for her and is therefore interested.
You also could be sending her mixed signals. Quickly dismissing her at the train station after she sent the signals for you to make a move may have actually indicated that YOU weren’t interested. Also, you say she texts you every other day. Are you initiating text convos, too? If she feels that she’s the one initiating all of the texting, she may think that you’re not interested. If I were you, I’d make that move soon – or at least set that dinner date soon. She could start “talking to” that Tony guy again just to get you jealous or out of boredom – but then actually end up with him again.
David asks…
Is this girl interested? 10 points to the best answer!?
I went to visit a girl who I’ve been friends with for over a year now, and we casually texted or immed each other a lot even while she went out with another guy. I deep down always had a crush for her, but never really told her. I came for just the day because she had to work later that afternoon, but I felt it was worth seeing her. During the visit we first drove into the city, and there wasn’t much to do since it was early in the day so she suggested us walking in the park and saw a bench and wanted to sit down and talk/catch up. She then asked if I was interested in anyone, and told her I told her no, and I asked her back and she talked about how immature her ex (Bob) was and how he wants her back, and doesn’t understand why she broke it off. We then got hungry and went to get brunch at this nice place she enjoys, which I’ve never been to. At the end, she offered to pay, but I ask if it was okay I wanted to, and i remembered she texted before “when you come up, will take me out to dinner?” a while ago. I told her i remembered I owed her a meal, but she goes “oh I meant dinner…” and my reply was “we could do dinner another time too” After, we went to the mall, went into the pet store, clothes stores, and found out how we both like cologne/perfume a lot. When she dropped me off at the train station, we hugged but then there was a minute of silence and we just looked at each other, but if I saw her kind of bend her knees/looked a lil sad/ leaning forward, and i just quickly hesitated and said “oh you should get to work, i’ll talk to you later” and left. Lately, she’s been texting me every 1-2 days saying things like hi and how she would be at work or driving to a friend’s house, asking if i went to the beach yet and how she wants to go there. I think it’s her hinting on going? Also, at the end I asked if she was doing anything that night, and she told me her old ex (Tony) asked her to dinner and she said she doesn’t feel anything for him, but she can’t resist food and doesn’t see any harm in going. I guess that kind of bothered me a little?
2 nights ago t i called, but i feel she felt anxious and after 10 mins on the phone she asked to talk on aim. She talked normally on there, and we kept joking back and forth to the point she threatened to kick me in the face. I then said “I doubt you can reach that high, but you can show me this over dinner friday night.” Her response was “hahaha so u want to get kicked in public on friday?” I assume this is a yes, because we just kept joking a until she demanded that I text her after she signed off and texted a lil back and forth before she went to bed.
Tonight I asked if we were still on for friday, and she goes “huh?” and i hinted about dinner on friday night, and she goes “u were serious….haha you’re funny” right there I just felt hurt…but tried not showing it. I just hope this was done on purpose to make it seem like she’s not all over me etc.
Sorry for this long novel, but any advice/insight please?
admin answers:
Yes its possible..obviously when she talks to you she feels comfortable and happy..your her old friend, you know how to make her laugh, smile, and just be happy altogether..you said she just broke up with her ex?…hmmm ya see the fase she went through, ya’know texting you all the time and going places with you and trying to kiss you was a sign that yes she does/did like you…it can be because she was vulnerable at that time and was just feeling the need of someone…and when people are in that vulnerable state, they have open arms for most people…her talking to you comfortably on aim may be that she’s nervous to talk on the phone, doesnt want to run up the bill, or something even sneaky maybe idk…you asked to go to dinner on friday and she said no?…hmmm well ya’know that time she tried to kiss you and you kind of turned her down, she probably felt that you werent interested so she wanted to move on..and her kidding saying she was going was maybe just a joke in her eyes..you can hope she didnt move on with one of her exes, and give off more hints that you like her..if she tries to give you the cold shoulder in a nice way talk to her about it and say that you thought she was interested the time we went to the park…but i think she may have a little something type of feeling for you…but you have to keep getting signs to find out if it can turn into something… Hope i helped XD
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